Losing a loved one opens our minds to all sorts of possibilities.
On my grief journey. I’ve had some surprises.
Manjula, as a Hindu, believed in reincarnation. I supported her and completed the rituals to help her spirit find its new body.
I’ve read many books and gained support in trying to understand what might happen after death. But …

After watching this Netflix documentary I complained to Manjula that I’d not seen or heard a sign. Maybe I’d missed it.
The very next day, I was standing, with a friend, on the rug in the centre of the downstairs lounge at our old house.

A dragonfly (acknowledged as a potential messenger from the ‘other side’) flew in.
It tightly circled the two of us — one — two — three times as we stood in the centre of the room. It then landed on the ‘M’ (on Manjula’s pennant) on the wall nearby.



I opened the doors and windows and encouraged (arms flapping) the dragonfly to leave the house.
The next morning Sowbhagya found the dead dragonfly on the wooden cabinet, underneath the framed photo of MAnjula where we hang flowers and lights in her memory.
I’d failed to get it to leave.
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This year we’ve moved to a new house. It’s extra challenging as the previous house is the one MAnjula and I had shared for nine years.
Most of the furniture had gone and so this was one of the last removal trips.
As I walked across the room there was a crunch underfoot.

It was the cow head that had been hanging between the two pennants. It had fallen on the floor and I’d broken it again as I stepped on it.
I looked up to the place it had fallen from. The two pennants were completely reversed and facing the wall.
How is that possible?
…
Seems like an acknowledgement, a message, a sign to me. Who knows?
…
I generally have an open attitude. A belief that anything is possible. Life is complex, much of which we don’t understand and there are layer upon layer to discover.


Clearly. I’m open to the signs.
Thank you MAnjula.
Maybe Billet-Doux was one too.

































































