My Indian sister.

Radhika called round with a gift

It’s a special day (Raksha Bandhan) when sisters give a bracelet known as a Rakhi

It symbolises brotherly love and a promise of protection, bringing good fortune.

I broke my no-sweet-things rule.

Radhika is Kaveri’s auntie but they’re really like sisters.

I’ve got to know Radhika quite well over the past year, especially during the school holiday when she came with Kaveri and I for swimming, skating and often stayed at the BnB.

Fresh from swimming

We’ve all been on holiday together to Kerala. Twelve of us, the first time and we’ll return in October with Kaveri, her mum Chandrika and Radhika. .

Radhika’s real brother gave her a giant pink teddy that’s now moved in here.

Radhika passed her exam this year, got a high-scorer award and is now at PUC- Pre-University College.

Award winner.
Saree gift from me on Lakshmi’s big day

Bringing MAnjula home

Manjula appeared behind my cycle as well as in our hearts on what would have been her 50th birthday.

We celebrated with 100 children at Kaliyuvamane

Today I brought her home.

We cycled through the countryside, along the national highway, through the suburbs and on my cycle route around Chamundi Hill.

Stopping to chat as people wondered what it was all about.

It’s about our love and her kindness

… and now we’re back home at Manjula’s Garden

Meet a friend — Ina

Ina was already at our house as I returned from the U.K.

The lunatics had taken over the asylum. We have a similar sense of humour but that doesn’t necessarily travel well. 🤔🤭 sorry to Charles, the Canadian giant. He gets it.
Self catering BnB

Ina was an early guest who returned to visit every year bar the coronavirus blot on our landscape. She quickly became a close friend of Manjula helping us celebrate our engagement in 2015. They would mostly hang out together and she’s the guest who’s stayed the most and longest.

We’ve also become good friends. She’s also lost her loving partner and been a great support to me.

Ina has seen Kaveri two years running and appreciates how she’s progressed.

Ina has a strong Scottish accent even though she’s lived in Australia for almost seventy years, having escaped Britain, on a ship, to settle there as a young girl with her family.

Part of the team on Manjula’s birthday.
Bonding over chai and a phone on Manjula’s birthday.
The second celebration of what would have been Manjula’s 50th birthday. Satish is photographer

Ina, is most definitely one of Manjula’s kind. Thoughtfully helping, all around her, emanating a positive energy, appearing to be decades younger than she is but we don’t mention age.

Her initial visit was to meet a Tibetan monk, for the very first time, that she’d sponsored since he was a child.

She regales with stories of her family and her great times looking after her grand kids.

We keep remembering celebrating Manjula’s last birthday.
Fun together, Ina with Kaveri and Radhika. Aroma Bakery after swimming.

As she says herself

I couldn’t agree more. I’m still learning

Demonstrating the new balancing pod thing, whilst worrying Paul from France
Visiting Chandrika and Mani, Kaveri’s mum and dad.

Ina leaves at some ungodly hour for the flybus to Bangalore airport for a week in Singapore en route to home in Australia after our last meal together at Olive Garden

She’s supposed to have gone but I thought I heard her calling out downstairs. Now that’s worrying.

I look forward to her return next year

Grumpy old man

One of my first clients as a student social worker was an old man.

He was seriously grumpy

We would joke about where grumpiness came from.

Was it inherent in the person? Was it learned through experience? Did it arrive with old age?

I now know the answer.

It’s all three

The key factor though is we can choose to be grumpy or not.

I was more grumpy, especially over the past few years, now I’m a bit less.

and I’ve not got the T shirt.

Footnote

As I can’t stop talking, writing, wording….

One flavour of grumpy is anger and I realise it’s derived from being sad. Another is post trauma and the impact it has.

Visit Manjula’s library there’s lots to discover that might help.

Me, I’m still working on it.

But I do have this one.

Our quiet relaxing park

Exotic birds
Billet-doux
Lucie

I have an uneasy feeling.

Conflict could happen.

One of our benches

Locals have made an addition, it’s becoming a lounge.

Our love for MAnjula

Billet-Doux decides to wind up the crows.

But it’s not with those species that problems arise.

As a fracas begins and grows and grows as more self important neighbours choose to bully one side.

I’ll find out later what it’s about

Sounds like they’re resolving it physically now. Good job the do-gooders got involved to calm things down, not.

No different from Britain. Except caste and community might have an influence.

We’ll find out.

It’s not often I notice such happenings but things quickly flare up and get-out-of-hand.

Later

I’m (un)reliably informed that the police do pick up the phone, as they appeared , presumably to bang heads together.

Meanwhile the birds, dog and cat co-exist.

Except

radhika’s puppy

Comes to wind up Lucie

wonderful images from Manjula’s Birthday event

on what would have been Manjula’s 50th birthday we held a creativity day for the 100 students at Kaliyuva Mane School

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Why do we do it?

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To remember and celebrate Manjula by continuing her good kindness.

Please check the wonderful photographs of our latest event

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Faizan is the official photographer and film maker of Manjula’s Mysore. A great friend of both Manjula and Stephen

He often presents us with a problem. His still shots are too good — we want to see them all.

So here they are — of the day we worked with the team at Kaliyuva Mane on the 21st August, on what would have been Manjula’s 50th birthday — to help support their work with these wonderful children.

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More info and links below.

More information about this day can be found here:

Faizan’s videos for Manjula’s Mysore are:

Introducing Manjula on a previous birthday

Our event on Manjula’s Birthday in 2022 for visually impaired young women

Our web sites

Kaliyuva Mane School

Manjulas’s Mysore for details of what we do (our services)

MeandMycycle for more about us and who we are (the blog)

For more information about Faizan

Our thanks to our supporters: The school itself Kaliyuvamane and its great team, Polar Bear Ice Creams their fab team, Faizan and our wonderful volunteers: the artist/teachers Anjali, Rena and Shubhash with help from Australia: Ina, Ali and Miai and Mysore Bed and Breakfast: Sowbaghya.

We all had fun and it made a difference in the children’s lives

Thank you, from Manjula and Stephen

Will they pick up ?

I’m told they don’t pick up or answer the phone.

If the underpass is anything to go by you’ll be waiting sometime.

The ripped sign should give us a clue.
It’s locked.

This is on a day when the whole city is heaving. It’s Lakshmi’s festival in a few days time.

People are risking life and limb crossing the busy roads, squeezing in the few inches between the concrete blocks separating the constant streams of traffic.

Who cares?